Every human male is a development from essentially female in utero. Most human males therefore have a built-in, vestigial if you like, capacity for identifying as a female. The male brain develops and over-rides the female. I'm somewhere in the middle - doesn't mean I'm confused about anything. It means that I have found it normal and easy to feel the way a woman feels. One aspect is that I like to be fucked, perhaps a little more so than the other way round. I was well into adulthood when I first wanted to be on the receiving end. It is now a long time since I have indulged. I choose to not do so again, at least for the present. A key factor was a sauna encounter with a man who it appeared to me to have indulged excessively in anal sex, fisting etc. What happened was that after a short time he began to prolapse in a most serious way, as if this was a regular thing. I bolted! You may argue that moderate screwing with an average size dick doesn't make any significant impact on the body, no more so than vaginal sex. I argue that a nine-year-old boy has a small body and a small rectum and an average BL has by comparison a very large dick - danger. And it's one thing gently inserting below the threshold, another to bang away. No nine-year-old boy is capable of assessing the physical and psychological impact of a grown man pushing him to receive, no such boy should be put in such a position. No adult should even suggest the possibility. In respect of psychological impact, a consenting boy able to discontinue at any point may find his female core elements awakened by this activity. In fact, many young boys at some time engage in anal sexual play (others dabble in SM!). I do not consider this to be a problem in itself. The problem is the insistent BL incapable of much empathy that creates a psychological setting that can harm. There are exceptions. Precocious prepubescent boys whose sexual circuitry - to use poor imagery - is so advanced as to "know exactly what they want", and if you don't give it to them sensitively and caringly, they'll just find someone else. That's a real dilemma. |