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Everyone here, has the potential to be a danger...

Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-March-7 17:38:13, Monday
In reply to Don't blame your behavior on 'others'. posted by Parsifal on 2011-March-7 17:14:07, Monday

... to boychat.

"You did a really dumb thing and either don't possess the requisite intuition to know in advance how stupid it was or you did it purposely in order to harm BoyChat."

No other possibilites? Not, for example, others have done similar things, and I just copied them?

"Ignorance of the law is no excuse." (you implied)

True. But haven't you defended others who, through their ignorance, were harshly punished in ways you thought were unjust even though those people were ignorant of the law?

So, if I don't know Canadian law then I am "shirking responsibility"?

"...it was either stupid or intentional"?

No other choices? Like, I see others jaywalk, so I jaywalk, too, thinking that at this corner it seems acceptable. You would not do the same?

If I see others in the group do something, and I copy it, then am told I shouldn't do it, then I say, "Others did it - I thought it was OK." then this is to wrongly trying "to spread responsibility among the group instead of owning [my] behavior."?

"You are a danger to BoyChat and you don't realize it."

There are many ways one can be a danger here. Being overly critical of other posters is one of the ways.

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