What do you do after realizing that you are obsessed with someone who can never work out? It's a tough situation because no matter what your brain decides, your heart (guts? libido?) has it's own values and plans. For me the obsessing has resulted in my other relationships melting away, stopped associating with family and friends. It sucks having a secrete crush that you can't talk about with any of the people you know IRL, and keeping it secrete adds to the isolation effect that are already there in an obsessive relationship. Rational advice has limited ability to help when dealing with our irrational human passions. You are not alone man, it's an age old story. That's why there are so many sad love songs. [@nonymouse] [Guardster] [Proxify] [Anonymisierungsdienst] |