I remember your nick from years ago (I started posting here about 10 years ago), but I didn't get to know your persona well before you left. You say many true things. For me, as middle-age sucks me into old-age, I feel my libido weakening more with each passing year. That has the benefit of not being driven to "find a boy" in my life. I was quite the boy-chaser until about 5 years ago, when I reached a tipping point where the hassle of pursuing, befriending, and keeping boy friends began to outweigh the joys of having them around. So, I've been boyless for about 5 years. But, I'm happy in many other ways. With the old sex drive greatly diminished, the need to just be in the presence of boys has disappeared. Yes, the board has slowed, but I don't find that to be negative. I remember when flame wars were tolerated and a post could end up in Old Posts in just a couple of hours. I'm so glad THOSE days are gone! So much has been discussed here over the years. If one sticks around long enough, like me, we pretty much see the same kind of posts over and over and over... but I like staying current at BC just for the cyber connection to other boylovers. I have never desired to find or befriend other boylovers in real life. All I ever wanted was to befriend those special boys. I didn't care what other BLs were like, nor did I want to invite competition, hehe. Reading boylovers' posts here at BoyChat has been sufficient for me to get an idea of what other BLs have been through. I have shared my experiences here as well. Anyway, I hope you stick around and keep us company. Nickless |