Hi Santi I personally did like MJ. He was perhaps instrumental to my understanding and personal growth to Boylove before I ever came across Boychat. I knew I liked boys. ANd when I heard about MJ and the molestation charges, it was like an internal antenna thrummed and picked up something.. I for sure believe he was, in a way, a boylover. Perhaps not a poster. My own personal conversations with a certain someone was instrumenal in my own personal understanding of MJ. he was a good person, and he did understand boys. He connected with me, as I'm sure he did with a lot of others. While the cogs have to think about more than just putting up a black ribbon and risk being linked and harrassed and perhaps leading to a tarnishing of the history of MJ's life by the popular media, I beleive that as a group, it is right to mourn the passing of a shooting star. With love, Greeny |