personality is what we are and is relatively fixed. Behaviour is what we DO and is subject to a wide range of variables - inherently unstable. Behaviour obviously comes from or is governed by personality but it cannot be the same thing. And I just don't see how you can like or dislike someone based upon how they project themselves on an anonymous chatboard. It's a bit like BfG's sigpic I suppose where the faux Batman projects a huge finger at the sky using a tiny lamp. Having said that I can be very sociable so if you are ever in Cape Town look me up and I am sure we would enjoy a beer together. Bring Django and BB. /K ~ A Free Spirit |